As I am suppose to be getting ready for my C-ser's housewarming party I came across this picture... So it made me want to post about friendships! Lord knows I have had plenty that have been great and plenty that has failed faster then they got started. I have been the person who is the worst friend ever.. And I have been on the receiving end of having the worst friend ever! NEVER will you ever hear me say I am perfect! Nor am I the perfect friend.. Shoot, we are all girls and EVERY girl talks about at least one girl in their life's! I don't care if it's ur husbands x girlfriend or a friend you have had for years that made u mad! I have tried/trying to make myself better and I think I am doing a ok job! But the reason why I am posting about friendships today is cause even though I have had the greatest of friendships or the worst, it always seems to me that THIS picture/saying says it all! THERE IS A REASON you are not friends with that one person! THERE IS A REASON why you and that girl couldn't be friends and THERE IS A REASON why y'all stopped being friends! Even though y'all can be nice to each other when yall see each other or smile as passing in the store... Their part in ur life is over! There is a reason why you needed them and don't need them now.
It has taken me a while to understand this! And I hope a lot of people understand. As you grow as a person most of your friendships don't. They try to stay the same and as much as we want that it is never going to happen. I know people can have many friends from high school all the way up to they are in nursing homes! I have a couple! :) but that doesn't mean they have not lost friendships!
Kinda just my rant- and if you are close to me you understand this more!
Very well said!!! I really enjoyed reading this!! Hope you and your family are doing well!! Miss and love u!
ReplyDeleteThank u!!! Miss and love u 2!!
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